Family Pledge of Nonviolence

Making peace must start within ourselves and in our family.
Each of us, members of the __________family,
commit ourselves as best we can to become nonviolent and peaceable people.

To Respect Self and Others
To respect myself, to affirm others; to avoid uncaring criticism,
hateful words, physical attacks, and self-destructive behavior.

To Communicate Better
To share my feelings honestly, to look for safe ways to express
my anger, and to work at solving problems peacefully.

To Listen
To listen carefully to others, especially those who disagree with me, and to
consider others' feelings and needs rather than insisting on having my own way.

To Forgive
To apologize and make amends when I have hurt another,
to forgive others, and to keep from holding grudges.

To Respect Nature
To treat the environment and all living things,
including our pets, with respect and care.

To Play Creatively
To select entertainment and toys that support our family's values and to avoid
entertainment that make violence look exciting, funny or acceptable

To Be Courageous
To challenge violence in all its forms whenever I encounter it, whether at home,
at school, at work or in the community, and to stand with others who are treated unfairly.

This is our pledge. These are our goals. We will check ourselves on what we have pledged once a month on ___ day of the month for the next 12 months so we can help each other become more peaceable people.

Pledging Family Members Sign Below:
____________________ ____________________
____________________ ____________________
____________________ ____________________

 

From the Institute for Peace and Justice's Families Against Violence Advocacy Network
Creating a Circle of Families and Children, 1 Million Strong, by the Year 2000
Families Against Advocacy Network
c/o The Parenting for Peace & Justice Network
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May Peace Prevail On Earth